Daily Inspiration

In this clip from "The Soldier" episode, Caine is testing his agility and courage in front of an audience of students. However, Master Kan (Philip Ahn) sees Caine's activities as nothing but reckless egotism.

I guess we are all guilty of playing to the gallery from time to time. It may seem pointless to be skilful or knowledgeable if it doesn't result in recognition. But why is the admiration of others so essential? Why do we feel worthless unless we have the praise of others?

Yet, most of us avoid people that we suspect have a narcissistic disposition. These people are often boasting of their achievements and importance in an effort to obtain admiration. They may also become emotionally volatile if the approval they seek isn't forthcoming. Their ego is effectively enslaved by the opinions of others. Consequently their sense of self-worth varies wildly, often making any interactions with them very unpleasant.

The ancient Taoist master Lao Tzu, deliberated on egotism in the 'Tao Te Ching'. From chapter 24 of this Taoist sacred text:

"People who make a show are not wise.
Those who are self-righteous will not be respected.
Those who boast achieve very little and don't endure.
Behaving in this way will not bring happiness.
People are despised for there pride and admired for their humility."

From this verse we can see that a rampant ego distances us from the Tao and the people around us. Therefore a follower of the Tao pursues skill and wisdom, but remains unpretentious. She knows contentment can only come from within. Furthermore, living without either the desire for approval or the fear of rejection, she is truly free.